By Moushumi Ghose, LMFT
Sexual fluidity.
Gender fluidity.
Relational fluidity.
All. of. it.
What do I mean by fluid?
Everything exists on a spectrum.
We aren’t born into fixed boxes.
We evolve.
We shift.
We try on new skins.
We break the molds we were told to stay in.
Maybe you feel straight today, and queer tomorrow.
Monogamous for years, then suddenly not so sure.
Femme today. Not so much yesterday.
They/them.
He/him.
She/her.
All of the above.
None of the above.
This isn’t confusion.
This is capacity.
Capacity for expansion, nuance, and honesty.
At LAST (Los Angeles Sex Therapy), my goal has always been to create a space for this kind of exploration.
For this kind of acceptance.
For this kind of authenticity.
To live authentically.
With the flow.
Because inclusivity isn’t just a value—
and accepting our fluid nature is essential to our collective well-being.
When we honor each person’s evolving truth, we create a world where people feel safe to be themselves.
When we hold space for all possibilites.
We. Create. Safety.
And that safety? That’s the foundation for pleasure, healing, and liberation.
Let yourself be fluid.
Let others be fluid.
It’s not a phase—it’s a wave.
And you’re allowed to ride it.
And, if you get stuck we are here to help!
Our therapists and coaches are excited to work with you!
Mou (pronounced Mo) is licensed sex therapist, sex-positive advocate and the creator of Los Angeles Sex Therapy (LAST Collective) as well as the Pleasure Psychology Sexology Training & Coaching Certification.
Mou’s passion is around advocacy and change by breaking down barriers for better relationships and sex. Mou specializes in couples sex therapy that is trauma informed with an emphasis on emotion focused and somatic work and which integrates other modalities as needed which are tailored to her clients needs. She has extensive experience both personal and professional with LGBTQIA, Kink, Ethical Consensual Non Monogamy (ENM/CNM), Polyamory, BIPOC.
She is the author of several books, has appeared in the media and numerous publications. She is the creator of a documentary film series Temple and Brothels undoing harmful messages around sex, and sexuality.
www.moushumighose.com