Want to have a threesome? This article will walk you through the basics of getting started – and what you need to know.
If you and your partner are interested in having a threesome, welcome to the club. Threesomes are a very fun way to experience new sexual horizons with a person you love and/or like and trust.
They are an opportunity to sexually explore without the added anxiety of going at it alone or separately.
This is usually the first stop on the CNM journey. But just because you and your partner are searching for someone attractive, open-minded, and good at communicating to have fun with doesn’t mean you have to treat that person like dirt. This is called “unicorn hunting
What Is a ‘Unicorn Hunter?’
Unicorn hunters are couples who are searching for a third party to join them in bed and then GTFO. “These couples are typically problematic in that their mindset doesn’t acknowledge the [other] person as a third partner in the scenario but tends to objectify them as someone to fulfill a fantasy and is thus full of naive and potentially unreasonable expectations,” Moushumi Ghose, MFT, licensed sex therapist and founder of LAST, tells TheBody.
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Caitlin Oates
Author
Doubling as LAST’s practice manager and intake coordinator, Caitlin is a writer and creative with a passion for sex-positivity, LGBTQIA advocacy, and mental health care.
Caitlin earned her bachelor’s degree in communications from Northwestern University, and now flexes those communication muscles by teaching medical students humanism skills, coaching athletes in functional fitness, and learning from and working with LAST to promote, amplify, and normalize the importance of sexual and mental health.